Something to Think About

a blog on end of life

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About the BK Team
Letting Go... Barbara Karnes, RN

QUESTION: What to do if the Doctor suggests stopping life support? RESPONSE: No one wants to be in the position of determining when a person dies, not doctors, not family....

Dementia Doesn't Play By The Rules: Barbara Karnes, RN

QUESTION: My question is about when someone with advanced dementia is in that sort of vague pre-active dying period, say those months in and out of the hospital, the time...

Labor: Barbara Karnes, RN

QUESTION: Please expound upon the "Labor of Dying" mentioned in this blog. Dying from disease and old age has a process to it. That process begins two to four months...

Staff Concerned "We Are Starving Mom To Death"

Food is the body’s anchor to this planet. It is what keeps us going, gives us energy, grounds us. As death from disease approaches the body doesn’t want the grounding,...

Comfort As Death Approaches article by Hospice Innovator, Barbara Karnes, RN

Having someone close to us in the dying process is so very sad but with a bit of knowledge it doesn’t have to be a bad experience...

Hydration vs. Dehydration

We equate food and water with living and as we watch our special person approach death our thoughts turn to nourishment and hydration as a possible way to “fix” them...

The Death Rattle (medically known as Terminal Secretions) by Barbara Karnes, RN


The death rattle is not always present. Those people that have more fluid or are more hydrated as they approach death, are the ones most likely to experience this natural...

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