Something to Think About

a blog on end of life

Barbara Karnes Books team members Julia, Danny, Barbara Karnes, Cher, and Jacquelyn providing trusted end-of-life education, hospice resources, and caregiver support.

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About the BK Team
You Have a Life Threatening Illness. Now What by Barbara Karnes, RN green graphic, pink circle, black lettering.jpg

What do you do when you are told you have a life threatening illness? Understanding your options can help you decide not only how you want to be cared for,...

When a Dying Person Stops Eating: Food at End of Life article by Hospice Pioneer, Barbara Karnes, RN

Food becomes a major concern for families when special person is dying. This article explains why the body naturally stops eating and how caregivers can respond with less frustration.

Can You Be “Full Code” in Hospice? What Families Need to Understand blog article by End of Life Educator, Barbara Karnes, RN

Hospice and palliative care are not the same—and understanding that difference matters. If the goal is comfort and a natural death, certain medical interventions no longer fit. Let’s talk about...

Why the Memory of Dying Stays With Us by Barbara Karnes, RN, about grief, memories of the dying process, and finding ways to heal after a loved one dies

We often replay the final moments of a loved one’s life — the sights, sounds, and emotions that felt so overwhelming. In truth, dying is rarely the peaceful scene we...

Think It Might Be Time for Hospice?  You're Probably Right

Death from disease and old age doesn’t just happen. There are signs and changes that begin occurring months before death arrives. You can use those signs as a reference indicating...

How Do You Get a Terminally Ill Patient to Accept Hospice Care? by Barbara Karnes, RN, discussing hospice care, eligibility, and support for patients and families

How do you get a terminally-ill patient to accept hospice care?

Should We Look for a Hospice House? by Barbara Karnes, RN, discussing hospice houses, inpatient hospice care, and Medicare hospice benefits

Today most hospices have some sort of a hospice house arrangement. It may be in a designated portion of a nursing facility or in a free standing building of its...

What if everyday was “I Love You Day” by Barbara Karnes, RN red & white graphic.jpg

Working with end of life all these years has shown me how special each day is. It has also shown me the value and the gift of living, doing, and...

Barbara Karnes, RN, explores what it may feel like to be a hospice patient and how caregivers can better support a person’s need for comfort, independence, rest, and control at the end of life.

How does a person feel as a hospice patient?  Everyone is waiting on them, they are unable to do things for themselves. They have to wear diapers and probably don't want...