Something to Think About
a blog on end of life
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- ALWAYS OFFER
- alzheimers
- Anger
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- anticipatory grief
- Approaching Death
- assisted care
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- Barbara Karnes
- bereaved
- Bereavement
- burnout
- BY YOUR SIDE A Guide for Caring for the Dying at Home
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- caregiver fatigue
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- Dame Cicely Saunders
- Death
- death and dying
- death awareness
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- death of a pet
- death ritual
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- dying looks different than expected
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- Dynamics of Dying
- Eating or not eating
- elderly
- Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
- end of life
- end of life care
- end of life conversation
- end of life doula
- end of life education
- end of life planning
- estate planning
- euthanasia
- family
- family caregiver
- father
- Fear
- Feeding
- Financial records
- Food
- food at end of life
- forcing food
- Funeral
- gift
- Gone From My Sight
- graduating from hospice
- gratitude
- Grief
- Grief Counselor
- grief support
- grieving
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- holidays
- Home Care
- home death
- home health
- home healthcare
- Hospice
- Hospice Blue Book
- hospice care
- hospice chaplain
- hospice education
- hospice end of life care
- hospice for pets
- hospice myths
- hospice nurse
- hospice nurses
- hospice patient
- hospice physician
- hospice referral
- Hospice Social Worker
- Hospice Staff
- hospice volunteer
- hospice volunteer training
- hospital
- How Do I Know You ?
- How Do I Know You? Dementia at the End of Life
- Hydration or dehydration
- infant death
- joy
- labor
- labor at end of life
- labor to be born
- life limiting
- life support
- loss
- media
- Medicade
- medical terminology
- medical visits
- Medicare
- medication
- medications
- memory care
- midwife
- mindfulness
- moment of death
- morphine
- mother
- My Friend I Care
- narcotics
- NEVER FORCE: Food at End of Life
- New Rules For End Of Life Care
- No Code
- Not Eating
- nurse
- nurses aide
- Nursing facility
- Nursing home
- nutrition
- Old Age
- older pet
- orientation
- oxygen
- pain
- pain at end of life
- pain management
- pain relief
- palliative care
- palliative sedation
- pandemic
- peace
- personality
- Pet death
- Pet illness
- physician
- podcast
- POLST
- prepare for death
- quality of life
- religion
- Retirement Home
- ritual bath
- RN
- sacred
- self care
- seniors
- signs of approaching death
- signs of dying
- sleep
- Social Worker
- socialization
- spanish grief literature
- stages of grief
- sudden death
- Suicide
- Supervisors
- support
- terminal
- terminal agitation
- terminal diagnosis
- terminal illness
- terminal restlessness
- The Eleventh Hour
- The Final Act of Living
- This Is How People Die
- Time
- Time of Death
- trauma
- treatments
- vigil
- visions
- volunteer
- volunteers
- washing the body
- widow
- widowhood
- wife
- Will
- You Need Care Too
QUESTION: Could you write about the fear of dying from the perspective of a patient not willing to go on hospice due to his fear of death and dying? It...
QUESTION: I wonder if you have any insight on Compassion Fatigue within Hospice staff? Wikipedia states: “Compassion fatigue, also known as secondary traumatic stress (STS), is a condition characterized by...
A patient/family support person. A trained volunteer is assigned to a specific hospice family to be a friend: a presence in their life during a time of great emotional upheaval...
Question: What is a Hospice House? In England during the 1970’s, where the hospice model originated, hospice care was provided not in a person’s home but in a freestanding building...
Question: What are your ideas for supporting and learning from other members of the hospice team? Life today seems so hectic. We are balancing career, family, social and often civic...
Question: I wanted to know more about your thoughts in regards to the role of Social Work in Hospice care including bereavement services. An interesting question since over the years...
Being active helps us poop therefore the less active we are, and people approaching the end of their life through disease or old age gradually have less and less energy...
What do you want me to write about? Getting a terminally ill patient to accept hospice care that is being offered to them. They really need it. Hospice has a...
Question: How do you handle your personal struggles when you have a family member or friend placed under hospice care and you are a hospice professional? How do you deal...
REQUEST: Write about the role of a hospice nurse in working within a dysfunctional familial environment that involves the patient. What is the definition of “dysfunction,” really? The dictionary defines...
How can Hospice and Nursing Facilities work well together?I think there are as many ways for a hospice to work with a nursing facility as there are hospices and facilities...
Some people have talked to me about “bad” hospice experiences so I want to address the subject. Unfortunately, there are agencies calling themselves hospice that really don’t practice the philosophy....
Hi Barbara, I just finished a CNA/HHA program and am looking for a career in hospice work. What options do I have? I took hospice training in 2001 through Kaiser...
QUESTION: Talk about dying at home, in the hospital, or in a hospice care facility. I think it is fair to say that most people, given the choice, would like...
QUESTION: “Life sustaining vs. comfort care, where do you draw the line?” This is a question everyone faced with a life threatening illness and their significant others asks themselves. We...
Many physicians are reluctant to recommend hospice. It is sad and confusing why they would not give their patients the guidance and comfort that trained hospice professionals can offer. Maybe...
Question: I have been diagnosed terminally ill with lung cancer and liver cancer. I am not at this moment yet, but wonder, how long? No one can be specific as...
From the web site I received a request asking me to tell how I first began my job at Hospice Care of Mid America in Kansas City Mo. In 1981...
Hi Nurse G,I think hospice care and the role nurses play has changed considerably and wonder if that is why you are not feeling the fulfillment you once did. Over...
I wrote this poem one day after seeing two particular patients. One was a woman in her 40's who was working through the anger of not being able to see...
Linda, an RN living in Arkansas, is sharing her story with us. I remember Michael so clearly because of his last wish and how the hospice team helped to make...







