
Something to Think About
a blog on end of life
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- BY YOUR SIDE A Guide for Caring for the Dying at Home
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- food at end of life
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- How Do I Know You ?
- How Do I Know You? Dementia at the End of Life
- Hydration or dehydration
- infant death
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- labor at end of life
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- My Friend I Care
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- New Rules For End Of Life Care
- No Code
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- nurse
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- Nursing home
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- Old Age
- older pet
- orientation
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- pain at end of life
- pain management
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- pandemic
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- Pet death
- Pet illness
- physician
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- POLST
- prepare for death
- quality of life
- religion
- Retirement Home
- sacred
- self care
- seniors
- signs of approaching death
- sleep
- Social Worker
- spanish grief literature
- stages of grief
- sudden death
- Suicide
- Supervisors
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- terminal
- terminal agitation
- terminal diagnosis
- terminal restlessness
- The Eleventh Hour
- The Final Act of Living
- This Is How People Die
- Time
- Time of Death
- trauma
- treatments
- vigil
- volunteer
- volunteers
- washing the body
- widow
- wife
- Will
- You Need Care Too
Most people, if they had their choice, would want to be in their home with family and the dog or cat on the bed when they die. YET, most people...
We enter peoples’ lives as professionals. We are knowledgeable, supportive, caring, and personable. However, we are not best friends, we are not even friends, really.
Now I have to learn how to be a widow. How to create a new life, a new way of being. I am truly alone.
Death has touched us all, some more recently than others. Grief has no actual timeline, no end point where we are suddenly “fine”. Each of us responds to our loss...
Our job as end of life workers is to educate. We walk a thin line. Our words can be heard and misunderstood so easily. They can be interpreted differently than...
The heart is still beating even when our less sophisticated machines don’t register them. The breathing will get slower and slower and the time between breaths will get longer and...
In the days to weeks before gradual death occurs a person realizes, at last, that they are dying. They may not share that realization with anyone, but they know. If...
I know that dementia doesn’t play by the rules of approaching death. The guidelines relating to food, sleep and sociability don’t fit with dementia. I know that I am seeing...
We human beings are complicated creatures. We approach death in the way we have approached living and according to our personality. Our belief systems are part of that living. Sometimes...
I think we healthcare workers rely on our words as our offering. Explanations, suggestions, instructions, even using words to offer condolences and trying to comfort. And yes, words are a...
If you have a good, amicable relationship then get them together and say, with caring in your heart, "I am going to tell you some things I have learned about...
How tragic that none can come forward and say, "Your father is dying. Let's stop all these extras and keep him comfortable”. Family as well as many individual physicians do...
In our medical society today, it seems to be very difficult for physicians to tell patients and/or families that death is approaching; That this special person will die, and probably...
There is a huge void in our medical system that so many families living with dementia fall into. These families have a loved one too sick and require too much...
"How do you reach out to a non-religious person who believes the end is the end?" You don't...
Dying is not a medical event. Dying is a communal, social event. Nursing and physicians are part of care, but not the all encompassing focus. The main focus of end...
By Your Side offers guidance in the area of making choices: cure, life sustaining, comfort care, making advanced directives, and funeral planning. It details signs of approaching death (what to look...
I often get the question, "How do I start an end of life discussion? How do I get my family to talk about what they want their dying to be...
Know that all of these signs of approaching death, whether indicating months or weeks, are just guideposts. Some people will show all of them...
Part of grieving is how you channel the feelings. Channel your anger, your disdain into how well you live your life now. Let your life experience be the learning tool...
"When do we say our final goodbye to someone who is dying?" Barbara Karnes talks about how we say goodbye in stages. We say goodbye many, many times.