Something to Think About

a blog on end of life

Barbara Karnes Books team members Julia, Danny, Barbara Karnes, Cher, and Jacquelyn providing trusted end-of-life education, hospice resources, and caregiver support.

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About the BK Team
We Try So Hard to Stay Alive. But Are We Living by Barbara Karnes, RN teal lavender white graphic _.jpg

We work so hard to stay alive, but are we really living? I’ve been thinking about how easily we get caught up in everyday life and put off the things...

Mom Is Dying. Why Can't We Talk About It by Barbara Karnes, RN blue and pink graphic.jpg

We know someone we love is dying, yet we often pretend everything is fine. Why is it so hard to talk about what is happening? When we avoid these conversations,...

You Have a Life Threatening Illness. Now What by Barbara Karnes, RN green graphic, pink circle, black lettering.jpg

What do you do when you are told you have a life threatening illness? Understanding your options can help you decide not only how you want to be cared for,...

Why You Need an Advance Directive (Before You Think You Do) article by Barbara Karnes, RN to encourage filling out end of life wishes

Most of us don’t think about healthcare decisions until something is wrong. But in crisis, emotions take over and clear thinking becomes difficult. Planning ahead—through an advance directive and sharing...

What Matters Most at the End of Life: Treatment or Time Together? article by hospice nurse Barbara Karnes, RN for caregivers

Sometimes the question is not how long we can live, but how we want to live with the time we have.

Why “Not Now” Is Still a Decision

Many of us avoid thinking about death, assuming it won’t affect us or our loved ones—until it does. This article explores advance directives, DNRs, and why understanding these choices matters...