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Dying 101

Dying from the coronavirus is considered a gradual death (due to disease), but it can happen rapidly. There is a process that occurs with gradual death. Certain things happen at...

When Unforeseen Events Force You To Break Promises to an Ailing Loved One by Judith Graham

“We want to give loved ones who are sick or dying everything we think they want — but we can’t,” said Barbara Karnes, 78, an end-of-life educator and hospice nurse...

The Rowan Report, Hospice Expert, Barbara Karnes, RN, Wants Home Health Nurses to Understand Hospice

If home health is involved in dying -- even when not the result of a clinically-driven decision -- they have to know how to take care of both patient and...

New York Times: The Gentler Symptoms of Dying

“Am I dying?” she asked.“We think so,” I said, touching her manicured fingernails. “I am here with you.” Later, she kept her eyes closed but opened them when we talked....

End of Life Expert, Barbara Karnes, RN speaks to the grieving on How Do You Let Go and Stop Feeling Guilty

Guilt seems to come with loss. We burden ourselves with questions we can never answer, with “what if ” and “why didn’t I”. We repeatedly berate ourselves with “I should...

Barbara Karnes, RN is interviewed for Oregon Public Broadcasting about Learning How To Die

Longtime hospice nurse Barbara Karnes, for instance, advises those approaching their deaths to not put things off until a day or hour when they are feeling better. Assume, she suggests,...

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