Dear Barbara, Would you talk about voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED)?
Here is a definition of VSED from Comfort Care Choices website:
“What is VSED (Voluntary Stopping Eating & Drinking)? This refers to the decision by a patient to stop eating food and drinking liquids when they have a terminal or life-limiting disease, so that their death can be hastened (and therefore their dying will not be prolonged).”
From the Death With Dignity website I got this information:
“You can live for a long time without eating, but dehydration (lack of fluids) speeds up the dying process. Dying from dehydration is generally not uncomfortable once the initial feelings of thirst subside. If you stop eating and drinking, death can occur as early as a few days, though for most people, approximately ten days is the norm. In rare instances, the process can take as long as several weeks. It depends on your age, illness, and nutritional status. At first, you will feel the same as you did before starting VSED. After a few days your energy levels will decrease and you will become less mentally alert and more sleepy. Most people begin to go in and out of consciousness by the third day and later become unarousable. Hunger pangs and thirst may occur the first day, but these sensations are usually tolerable; discomfort can be alleviated with mild sedatives or other techniques such as mouth swabs, lip balm and cool water rinses.” www.deathwithdignity.org/options-to-hasten-death/
The Death With Dignity article seems to me to be accurate regarding the dying process.
What do I personally think? If we want to die, VSED is a way of having total control. It is not illegal. It doesn’t involve others (which is illegal). It is basically easy, not needing any equipment, and leaves no mess. That said, I don’t think it’s a decision that should be made impulsively, in a moment of action, or when depressed. It is something that requires thought and commitment. It is one thing to not eat or drink for a couple of days, it is another to continue to not eat or drink when discomfort sets in.
Some articles that I used as a reference elaborates on how painful the process becomes and seems to stress being a “purist” in the respect of not even moistening the lips. Why? The idea here is a person has chosen to end their life--for whatever reason. There is no right or wrong, no rigid protocol to follow. I believe supportive care would be to keep the person as comfortable as possible and if that means moistening lips so be it. Actually I would recommend sucking on occasional ice chips or frozen grapes and using glycerin swabs to address the mouth discomfort. There is not enough moisture or nourishment in either to significantly alter the intended purpose of death. As long as the person is alert enough to control their swallowing that little bit may bring some comfort. Also medication to induce sleep as a comfort measure is very appropriate although I believe increased sleep will come of its own accord. In this situation sleep is very much your friend and I think it will increase naturally as the body begins shutting down.
Dying a gradual death from disease or old age naturally involves reduced eating and drinking. It just naturally happens. The body is shutting down due to the advancing disease process.
In the natural dying process, from disease or old age, people also gradually increase sleep, and withdrawal from their surroundings. With dehydration from disease induced or dehydration by choice the calcium in the blood stream increases and when it gets high enough sleep occurs and in that sleep death comes. That is how death from dehydration occurs whether chosen or happening naturally. I can’t help but think the dying process of VSED is similar to the natural dying from disease or old age.
This is an involved topic as well as emotionally charged. We bring to this discussion our relationships, our spiritual beliefs, and our sense of right and wrong. My perspective is most of us look at hastening our death because we are more concerned and frightened about dying than of being dead. If I have an illness and am told I am going to die soon, then lets skip the long drawn out “dying part”. If I am just old with no disease process, just finished living, then I suggest we first look for depression, for why this person is finished with living. Have a dialog, explore the reasoning. Maybe changes can be made. All that done, I think it would take a very strong personality to choose to die by not eating and drinking.
Something more about VSED...
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